No one hates you Madeline, I can assure you of that.
!['Cause I loves to make you smile, smile, smile! :hug:](./images/smilies/hug.gif)
You have to remember that lack of response doesn't mean that people don't care about you. It's just sometimes life happens and we don't have an opportunity to respond.
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No one hates you Madeline, I can assure you of that.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way and want to emphasize that not responding in this thread is not evidence of people hating you. Reading and especially responding in this thread takes energy, emotional and otherwise, that not everyone has/feels like investing at any given moment.
I don't know who this is intended for, but even if someone knows you have RSD, 1. not having the energy to respond to stuff here is not rejection and 2. It's not someone's responsibility to respond even if they can predict how you might feel, even if they like you and care about you.Especially when they’ve known me for years and know I have RSD among many many other problems
Mechanical Ape wrote: ↑Wed Jul 28, 2021 8:49 pmI'm so glad you're still here, Madeline. I've always thought you were great and I still do.
It's okay to not have a plan for your whole life. One day at a time, one moment at a time, is all you need to live. Thinking about the past and future can be exhausting -- it's something I've been struggling with, badly, for the last week. I hope you find yourself able to enjoy and find peace in the moment.
I want the very best for you.
Thank you, kind folks. I am not doing great ATM, the aftermath and treatment took a lot out of me and I haven’t got any spoons. But your love and support means a lot <3Princess Flufflebutt wrote: ↑Tue Jul 27, 2021 6:23 pmOh shit, I am so sorry. I don't know how helpful this is but I am glad you're still here. If there's anything I can do to help don't hesitate to ask or talk to me about stuff.
Madeline, if this is because of what happened in the Discord server, you did absolutely nothing wrong. That venting and support channel is meant for exactly what you used it for.Madeline wrote: ↑Sun Oct 31, 2021 4:17 amI trigger people when I talk about my feelings, and there is no way my situation can improve because I can’t do anything about any of my major stressors. Therefore I’m going to continue to be a toxic person. So I’m cutting myself off from all of my communities to avoid hurting anyone else.