So um Hi cuties how ya'll doin
First logicgate Im so happy for you wish you best of luck!
I don't want to rain in the parade so I hope it's ok if I just, well talk myself out here.
Now for something completly different, hope everybody is alright it's been a while since I've showed my face around here, what can I say, I'm sorry I guess, I know it's my bussines and all and I probably should't apologize but that's how I am, I feel like I need to apologize, Im weak, didn't even connect to irc all this time. Things have not been good for me in, what half a year or something? I don't know, time flies. I guess I want to give an explanation?
My psychologist dissapeared from the face of the earth when I thought I had support there, the person who was my best friend has not really been a good support either, she was surprised, then “supportive” and then everything I spoked was received with indifference or disagreement, I wasn't allowed to experiment because it would be awkward, I dropped everything went into denial.
When I talked to her about my social anxiety she said that I was exaggerating because I've never used that word before in my life so of course that means I'm making shit up, “you heard that word somewhere and you are just repeating it”, well no shit it describes exactly what I have, my fears, everything. That ended up affecting the rest of our relationship.
In the end I gave up, we don't talk much now and when we do is nothing related to any issues of mine, being queerness, transness (is that even a word), or my social anxiety, why would I bother I don't want to make it awkward for her, that's the story of my life not doing stuff because of fear of what people would say about me, feeling weak and alone I “escaped”, I didn't want to be a bother, now I feel like I ran away from the only place and people that would understand the way I was feeling, or at least not call me a liar when I talked about my own feelings, but I decided to run away like the weak coward I am. I feel like I abandonded a very very good friend here too (hope she can forgive me
).
I needed a reality check I suppose, a reality that slapped me in the face and left me in the floor crying.
Also Momar's post some pages ago made me cry thanks Momar
, but it was in part what motivated me to post and be here again.
Next week I start my classes, I'm now studying graphic design in a university here, I hope I can actually do something for myself these following years. I need to stand up, wipe my tears and move on foward. Hopefully this year will be better for me, if not I will try my best to make it better myself.
And that's that, sorry for being a party pooper.
Also I'm glad to see that this forum STILL has the best smilies.