The Round Stable

Aye, what of it?

just statin' facts

i'm not a furry i'm a fluffy

never mind. I apologize for posting. I did not mean to hurt anyone’s feelings.

I’m sorry if this is TMI also, it happens outside of furry circles, too

it's fine, no worries

Yeah, I've had my share of people I don't know DM'ing me out of the blue asking if I want to RP (I even had someone mass-DM'ing me if I want to RP for "charity", whatever that means). Instablock, needless to say.

And you're fine, Madeline!

Perrydotto wrote: ↑

Thu Nov 07, 2019 2:12 am

as so often with fandoms, finding cool and chill people to hang out with makes the experience 10000% better so you can avoid the bad shit at large

also yea I'm a furry and birds are good and I will never send you horny shit unsolicited so if you need more chill furry friends holler at me

same

here's a cute furry

DaikatunaRevengeance wrote: ↑

Thu Nov 07, 2019 6:57 pm

here's a cute furry

I found the cute furry

WOW

I apologize for being mean and hurting someone’s feelings.

Huh? I don't think you hurt anyone with what you had previously posted.

yeah

Someone PMd me to let me k ow I was kink shaming people and being hurtful, and moreover, that I have a pattern and history of doing this.

I had to apologize. I’m a garbage person.

ok

first of all, saying that you're uncomfortable when someone flies into your dms on twitter and tries to rp without your consent is not kinkshaming

I don't think you were disrespectful, though? It was a valid feeling.

I feel like the other poster was overreacting.

(EDIT: Yeah, what Daikatuna said)

It was about my diaper fur comparison. I don’t want to hurt anybody and someone was hurt that I compared it to pedophilia, which was a messed-up thing for me to do.

Somewhat agree, but you're alright.

Now if someone had made a thread called "Y'all babyfurs", they'd probably have a 2% accuracy rate and it would be considered fighting words and slander.

You're okay, Madeline.

It's 100% valid to not want someone to tell you about their kink in detail, or to ask that they not hit you up with unsolicited RP requests, and to block them if they do so after you've clearly indicated your aversion (either actively or passively).

On the other hand, making uncalled-for normative statements or value judgments about someone else's kinks is no bueno.

Exception: If someone's kink, itself, was to make unsolicited, inappropriate, actually-nonconsensual RP requests of people, the equivalent of a public flasher or groper type who gets their rocks off by doing inappropriate things and enjoying people's reactions, then you'd be justified in making a public complaint about it despite also being, unavoidably, kinkshaming. (But said person would, at least in my book, still be able to solicit consensual RP about their characters having such interactions... and so on down the rabbit hole.)